In the traditional reading of the Ramayana, which recounts the story of Shri Ram and Sita, one might say that Sita assumes a secondary role. But that is the reading that came to be during the time of spiritual decline. A new reading is required that sees the true role Sita played in helping to establish a civilization based on dharma, universal law. Sita’s message is that the essence of this law, of dharma, is love, not the emotional love based on feelings but a higher universal love that sustains all life and maintains the balance among the various universal forces at play in the seen and unseen worlds.
It is essential now for us to recall the quality of life before materialism overtook the human mind, when there was still communion with the animal and plant worlds, with the rivers and forests and sacred mountains. That is the world Sita sought to preserve for us and we can glimpse it as we peer through her eyes to see the world as it was and will be again once we extricate ourselves from the obsession with materialism.
The conference, or rather reflection on Sita, brought together scholars, spiritual teachers, and devoted followers of Sita to explore her life and teaching. It took place on the expansive lawn of the beautiful Jnana Pravaha cultural center by the side of the sacred Ganga. The gathering coincided with the launch of Dena Merriam’s new book
The Untold Story of Sita: An Empowering Tale for our Time.
While the story of Shri Ram and Mother Sita is well known and much beloved in Asia, it holds great significance for the west as well, as it is a universal story filled with messages for the individual and society on how to reclaim dharma, the universal law of love and balance, as the foundation of our individual and collective life.